The superior man is modest in his speech,
but excels in his
actions.
The superior man acts before he speaks,
and afterwards speaks according to his actions.
If
language is not correct, then what is said is not what is meant; if what is said
is not what is meant, then what must be done remains undone; if this remains
undone, morals and art will deteriorate; if justice goes astray, the people will
stand about in helpless confusion. Hence there must be no arbitrariness in what
is said. This matters above everything.
It is not possible for one to teach others
who cannot teach his own family.
He who speaks without modesty will find it
difficult to make his words good.
Fine words and an insinuating appearance
are seldom associated with true
virtue.
To see and listen to the wicked is already
the beginning of wickedness.
Silence is a true friend who never betrays.