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Personal Beliefs, Values, Basic Assumptions and Attitudes Understanding What Drives You and Others |
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By: Vadim Kotelnikov
Founder, Ten3 Business e-Coach – Your 360 Achievement Catalyst!
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"What you believe about yourself is what happens to you." |
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The clearer you are about what you value and believe in, the happier and more effective you will be. Beliefs are the assumptions we make about ourselves, about others in the world and about how we expect things to be. Beliefs are about how we think things really are, what we think is really true and what therefore expect as likely consequences that will follow from our behavior. According to Jemie Smart, an NLP guru, you can model beliefs as ‘feed-forward’ mechanisms that sort and filter data in order to prove themselves to be true. Beliefs are valuable resources, generalizations that people use to give themselves a sense of certainty and a basis for decision-making in an uncertain and ambiguous world. Values are about how we have learnt to think things ought to be or people ought to behave, especially in terms of qualities such as honesty, integrity and openness. What Do You Believe About Yourself? Many of the limitations you face in life are self-imposed. What you believe about yourself can keep you locked behind your fears or thrust you forward into living your dreams. "We are what we think," said Buddha. "Change your thinking, change your life," said Ernest Holmes. "If you think you can, you can. If you think you can't, you're right," said Mark Twain. You become what you believe you are. Buddha's Path To Liberation From right understanding proceeds right thought; from right thought proceeds right speech; from right speech proceeds right action... More Stray Birds By: Rabindranath Tagore "Let this be my last word, but I trust in thy love."... MoreCombine Your Life Vision & Life Strategy To get the most out of life, ask yourself if you have both a vision and a strategy. Think about your vision for your future – Do you really know what you want to achieve? Have you really thought about who you want to become? And what about your strategy for getting there – Have you set goals? Have you made plans for success? Clarifying both your vision and strategy will help maximize your motivation and your success, not to mention your health and happiness… MoreThe Power of Positive Beliefs What you create through your thoughts is a belief system, and that belief system is ultimately what determines whether you live a successful life. The key to changing your belief system is changing your thoughts. Orison Swett Marden wrote in How to Get What You Want, "Stop thinking trouble if you want to attract its opposite; stop thinking poverty if you wish to attract plenty. Refuse to have anything to do with the things you fear, the things you do not want." Instead you must think rightly about those things you want to attract. Mark Shearon once posed a very enlightening question to a telephone audience, "Are you thinking about what you're thinking about?" Read that sentence again and read it carefully. It's not a play on words. Marden goes on to write this passage about how much our thoughts influence the outcome of our life: "How often do we hear it said of some man, "Everything he undertakes succeeds," or "Everything he touches turns to gold?" Why? Because the man is constantly picturing to himself the success of his undertakings and he is backing up his vision by his efforts. By clinging to his vision, by vigorous resolution and persistent, determined endeavor he is continually making himself a powerful magnet to draw his own to him. Consciously or unconsciously, he is using the divine intelligence or force by the use of which every human being may mold himself and his environment according to the pattern in his mind."
The presuppositions are the central
principles central of
NLP Technology of Achievement; they are its guiding philosophy, its ‘beliefs’.
These principles are called presuppositions because you
pre-suppose them to be true and then act as if they were. You then discover
what happens. If you like the results then continue to act as if they are
true. They form a set of ethical principles for life...
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