Vadim Kotelnikov    

Coaching Yourself

Define your goals and organize yourself to attain them


Business e-Coach     


"It is never too late to be what you might have been." ~ George Eliot


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NLP Technology of Achievement

Coaching Yourself

Consider these points:

Conquering Yourself

Excerpts from Conquering Yourself 1917 manual

'Always will I strive to be greater than I am. I must surpass myself. In each successive act, test, encounter, thought, I will be greater than in the one previous. I am what I am now, but in an hour I must be more than I am now. In everything must I exert more power to surpass myself.

Achieving Your Big Dream: Powerful Attitudes

NLP Technology of Achievement

Personal Change: Your Empowering Beliefs

  1. 'I enjoy new ideas'

  2. 'I have an open mind'

  3. 'I know I can change'

  4. 'I've learnt so much before, and I use every opportunity to learn more'



Self-Coaching: 6Ws Questions >> GROW Model

Changing Yourself    Be the Best Possible

Coaching by Questions    "Why?" and "What If?" Questions

Learning >> Learn Forward

The Thought Factor in Achievement    Creating Inevitable Success: 5 NLP Steps

Setting Personal Goals

Dream Power

Categories of Personal Goals

Take Action

How To Overcome Procrastination

Starting With the Right Mindset

If you stop learning and improving yourself you stop creating history and become history. Think of yourself as a work in progress. Actually, we all are.

Identify old limiting beliefs that may be holding you back and get rid of them. It's really important that you constantly challenge yourself and test your boundaries on a regular basis.

If you are not getting the results you want, ask yourself coaching questions.  A clever question can instantly open your eyes, transform your life and launch you in a whole new direction.

You can move forward in small steps, but it should be something that requires you to stretch beyond your comfort zone. By doing this, you'll keep growing, inviting new energy into your life, and   discovering new opportunities.

Your Character Ethic and Personality Ethic

The elements of Personality Ethic, such as communication skills, influence strategies, and positive thinking, are essential for success, but these are secondary, not primary traits. "You can pick up quick, easy techniques that may work in short-term situations. But secondary traits alone have no permanent worth in long-term relationships. Eventually, if there isn't deep integrity and fundamental character strength, the challenges of life will cause true motives to surface and human relationships failure will replace short-term success."1

Only basic goodness gives life to techniques. To achieve great results, focus first on yourself your deepest motives and perceptions and then on your techniques.


Become a Greater Value Creator (GVC)

To achieve a 360 success in all areas of your life and business, you must strive to create a greater and unique!   value for people around you. Just creating some value is not enough. You must be different.  You must become a star in their lives, so you must stretch.

To be able to help people solve their problems in a caring value-added way, ask yourself these questions constantly:

Put Your Business Plan Into Action2

One of the best ways to identify the actions that you're ready and willing to take is by asking yourself empowering and powerful questions. You do need to be sure that your business plans are current and up to date. If they need some time to freshen them up, then I invite you to do this first. Now read through your business plans and get in touch with the positive feelings you had when writing them. Once you feel in touch with your plans, ask yourself one or a couple of questions. You may choose to use your own questions or start with ones such as:

  • What one specific action would have the greatest impact on bringing this plan to fruition?

  • What is the one action that I most need to take today?

  • What do I feel inspired and ready to do now?

Before asking the questions, quiet your mind and be willing to listen to your answer. Once you've identified the actions needed, get started now. This identifies the most effective action to take in alignment with what you most want through your business plan. As you build the habit of asking yourself these questions, you may want to add your own or choose different ones... More

NLP Technology of Achievement: The Circle of Excellence

This is a self anchoring process that allows you to draw on resourceful memories to create a resourceful state... More



1. "The NLP Coach", Ian McDermott and Wendy Jago

2. "The Easy Way To Put Your Business Plans Into Action", Wendy Hearn

3. "Corporate Coach eNewsletter," BREFI Group