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Perceptions

Vadim Kotelnikov, founder of 1000ventures - personal logo VadiK

Inventor Business e-Coach

Author Innoball

Founder Innompic Games icon

 

   

Perceptions are individual maps of reality – ways in which individuals perceive the world.

 

 

 

 

Business – decision making, negotiation, communication,  teamwork, motivation, value innovation, differentiation,  marketing, etc. – is all about perceptions.

The essence of leading, managing and selling is coming to grips with people's perceptions.

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"The same truth births countless opinions." ~ KoRe proverb

 

Parable

 

 

Vadim Kotelnikov (VadiK), founder, Innompic Games speaker trainer

Keep in mind that your opinion is nothing but your perception; your expressed opinion is nothing but a confession of your character.

~ Vadim Kotelnikov

 

How we generate information about the world is perceiving. Different perceptions arise from sensory input, cognitive biases, and personal experiences.

As Anaïs Nin put it, "We see the things not as they are, but as we are."

 

 

 

Coaching by Example

This KoRe slide has a life of its own, but I also sometimes use it as a joke to warm up the audience before I start talking about the importance of looking at any situation from different perspectives.

  Rich Man and Money: Servant and Master perception joke

 

   

Why do people interpret the same event differently?

Perceptual Intelligence (PI) enables individuals to navigate complex situations with better clarity.

 

 

 

 

   

Example: The core difference in perspectives between Russian and European leaders regarding the war in Ukraine

 

 

 

 

The Russian government states that its fundamental objective is a mission to eradicate the Nazism that has persisted in Ukraine since World War II and seized power through a coup in 2014.

 

Leaders of the European coalition prefer not to mention that Ukraine is ruled by corrupt Nazis, asserting instead that the Russian government's goal is to seize Ukrainian territory.

 

 

   

It should also be borne in mind that what politicians say is not necessarily identical to what they actually think.

 

 

 

 

Example of Different Perceptions: the bird and the firsh  

Perceptions Rule

Be aware of the lenses of our perceptions that make us see things as we are not as they are.

NLP teaches us that the map is not the territory; people respond to their experience, not to reality itself. "The bird thinks it is an act of kindness to give the fish a lift in the air," said Tagore.

Create Greater Value for Others

To be able to help people achieve more and solve their problems in a caring value-added way, ask yourself these searching questions constantly: How can I understand people, their needs, values and perceptions better?... More

 

 

 

Perceptual differences occur when individuals are exposed to the same stimuli and perceive them in different ways.

Acknowledge that you are most likely a prisoner of what you know and what you believe if you want to grow your social and business skills.

  Understand and Manage Perceptions in Negotiations and Conflicts

 

 

Perceptions shape behavior. Perceptual intelligence (PI) can make you a fortune.  →  Example

 

Manipulative Leadership

 

 

 

 

When new information is compatible with your knowledge reserves and structures it is noticed, accepted, and processed.

When it does not mesh with your beliefs, past experience or pre-conceived ideas it is distorted, receives little consideration or is ignored altogether.

 

6 Blind Men and an Elephant

4 NLP Perceptual Positions

Example of Selective Perceptions

 

 

Best communication quotes by Vadim Kotelnikov: wind metaphor

If you want your message to hit the target,
make an adjustment to the wind.

~ Vadim Kotelnikov

 

In communication, "making an adjustment to the wind" means taking into account perceptions and expectations of the other party and adapting a message accordingly to ensure that it produces the intended impact.

 

 

 

"Perception is all there is..." says Tom Peters. "There is only one perceived reality, the way each of us chooses to perceive a communication, the value of a service, the value of a particular product feature, the quality of a product."

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An example of opposing views on the same issue

August 2026. NATO leaders stated that their military exercises near the Russian border were intended to demonstrate the strength of NATO's military to Russia.

Russian generals, after observing these exercises, said they demonstrated the weakness of NATO's military.

 

Selective Perceptions

Perceptual Intelligence

The Next War Against Rustate

 

 

 

 

Customer Relationship Management

Brand Management: brand equity refers to the customers’ subjective appraisal of the brand.

Customer Value Analysis: value equity refers to the customers’ perceptions of value.

 

Loving Customer Relationships

Holistic Approach

Customer Listening Tips

 

 

 

Cognitive Dissonance

In the field of psychology, cognitive dissonance is the perception of contradictory information.

 

Marketing is about Creating Winning Perceptions

 

 

 

Idea Evaluation: 4x2 Perceptual Positions

Perceptual positions can help you gain new understanding through seeing things from different perspectives... More

 

Cultural Differences

Differentiating with Different Types of People

 

 

Vadim Kotelnikov

See yourself through the eyes of others if you want to be understood. See yourself through your own eyes if you want to disrupt the status quo.

Vadim Kotelnikov, founder of 1000ventures - personal logo VadiK

Inventor Business e-Coach

Author Innoball

Founder Innompic Games icon