Vadim Kotelnikov    

People Skills  >>  Solving Problems

How To Resolve Conflicts


Business e-Coach     


Be free from anger.
It's wonderful and empowering to stay calm when your enemies expect you to be enraged.




Negotiation Tips  >>  Wise Agreement

Resolves conflicting interests fairly... More

NLP Technology of Achievement

Guidelines for Effective Conflict Resolution

  • get the commitment of all persons involved to come to a solution acceptable to everyone... More


  Negotiation DOs and DON'Ts


Humorous Quotes

"When you are ill make haste to forgive your enemies, for you may recover." ~ Ambrose Bierce... More

No-Lose Method

The Golden Rule:
Do unto others as you would have others do unto you.

The No-lose Method produces a solution that brings mutual need satisfaction and turns a conflict into cooperation.  >>>

The No-lose Method for resolving conflicts between people is just a special application of problem solving, involving six separate steps: identifying and defining the problem; generating alternative solutions; evaluating the alternative solutions; decision making; implementing the decision; and following up to evaluate the solution... More

Positive Thinking: 5 Benefits

Win-Win Mindset

"It is one of the most beautiful compensations of life that
no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself."
~ Ralph Emerson

Win-Win sees life as a cooperative, not a competitive arena. Most people tend to think in terms of dichotomies: strong or weak, win or lose. But that kind of thinking is fundamentally flawed, because it is based on power and position rather than principle.

Win-Win means that agreements or solutions are mutually beneficial, mutually satisfying. With a Win-Win solution, all parties feel good about the decision and feel committed to the action plan... More 

Resolving Conflicts in Business

"If thou are a master, be sometimes blind; if a servant, sometimes deaf."
~ Thomas Fuller

Resolving conflicts between management and employees, between business partners, between sellers and customers and so on is an important part of performance management activities... More

14 Ways To Nourish Conflict

If you love conflict in your life, don't listen to anyone. Especially if someone is already hot under the collar, any sign of not listening will turn up the heat... More

Communication: Yin-Yang Balance



Mikhail Zhvanetsky humorous quotes, Russian jokes

If you're arguing with an idiot,

he's most likely doing the same.  >>>

Mikhail Zhvanetsky

Mother Teresa

If you judge people,

you have no time to love them.


Buddha teachings

Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.


Mahatma Gandhi advice quotes

Whenever you are

confronted with an opponent,

conquer him with love.

Mahatma Gandhi

Confucius advice

It is not the failure of others to appreciate your abilities that should trouble you, but rather your failure to appreciate theirs.


Vadim Kotelnikov advice quotes

You will forgive everyone and everything
when you discover true love >>>

Vadim Kotelnikov