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 Making Big Changes is something we all have to do sometimes. For
personal or professional reasons, we are called to do something radical in
our lives. We hear the "call" and we know our lives can never be the
same again. Such times are often challenging as we weigh up what to
do, whether to launch our new business idea or not.
Change is
like a mythological journey, where we hear the call, and then descend into
"the belly of the whale," the place of uncertainty, unknown dangers, etc.,
and finally make our home-coming. The following points are things to
consider to help make the decision to "leap" or not, and to support you once
you have decided to "leap."
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What is the worst that could happen? Be realistic, and as
specific as you can, about what you might lose if it all goes
pear-shaped. Are you prepared to risk this?
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On whom will my making this change impact? Work colleagues,
family or children, employees, others?
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What do I need to have in place to feel OK about this change?
Reserves, safety nets, support systems, etc.
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What do I need to do before making the change? Loose ends to
tie up, things to have ready, people to speak to - to inform, or
consult.
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Who can help me, and how? Professional support - this
is obviously a good time, but also look for support in your life -
partner, family, friends, and business colleagues, etc.
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What will it cost me not to do it? Most people
will think about the costs and risks of making a change. It is
important to also consider what the costs of not doing something might
be. If you don't make the change, will you be able to let it go
easily, and get on with your life, or will you keep looking back, saying
if only!
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How will I make this work? Look at the situation from the
place of having decided to do it - if you are going to do it, how will
you make this work for you? This is a totally different
conversation from asking yourself if you can do it, which can lead to
lots of negative responses and a "no." Asking yourself how you can
do it will create an opening for expanded thinking.
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How long will the journey take? What are the various
stages of the journey, and how long will you allow for each stage -
obviously you will need to be flexible about this, but some outline will
be helpful. In your mind, walk yourself through the decision and how it
will unfold.
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What will I do when I feel scared? Most change involves
a fear of losing something, even good changes, so be prepared for
feeling afraid during the course of your journey. Who can support you in
staying on track, and provide motivation and encouragement when you feel
like giving up?
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How can I celebrate my successes? Find ways, on your
journey, to celebrate the achievements you have made. This is fuel for
your success.
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