Vadim Kotelnikov    

Self-Improvement & Self-Discovery

Unlock your amazing power and achieve  extraordinary results!  Emfographics  Success 360


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Personal Breakthrough Discover Your True Slef Emfographics Creativity Discover Your True Self Your Life Mission All-Inclusive Love Awaken Your Inner Genius Coaching by Example Your Life Symphony Great Achiever Passion

How to Achieve Extraordinary Results

Yourself is the most critical variable of your success in achieving what you want.

Turn Your Dream To Reality

You can't control people or events, but you can manage your response to them. Your skill and your ability to manage yourself directly affect the extent to which you achieve your goals.

6W Questions

Love What You Are Doing

We were born to do not what we are forced to do, but what we love to do. If you love what you do, you  release your diving creativity. Continuous creative activity and the joy of achievement is a great source of happiness... More

Life-Business Synergy      BE MAD      Be Energized ‒ Always!

Make a Difference!      Great Learner      8 Winning Habits




Do You Know Yourself Well Enough?

Great Leaders, Coaches and Communicators don't focus extremely on their followers, coachees (players), and audience. They have a high degree of self-awareness.

We all have basic skills to lead, coach, or communicate; unfortunately, most of us have a few psychological blocks when it comes to applying those skills well and consistently. Knowing yourself will help you overcome your own blocks... More

Your Personal Development Program

"Formal education will make you a living; self education will make you a fortune."  ~ Jim Rohn

Your personal development program powered by various effective techniques will help you achieve the results that you really want... More

Thinking Emfographics Lexicon of Winners and Losers Extraordinary Thinker Your Life Symphony Creative Achiever Emfographics Take Action You Are What You Think Breakthrough Thinker Your Thoughts define Yourself and Your Life

All-Inclusive Love      Happy vs. Unhappy People      Happy Victor

Amazing Thinker 360      Life Vision      6 Mindsets of a Great Achiever





"You cannot teach a person anything; you can only help him find it within himself." ~ Galileo Gallilei


Unlock Your True Potential

Your Life Symphony

One Way, Many Paths

Kore 5 Affirmations    Kosages

Love Symphony

Life Mission    Dream Big Dreams

True Passion    Life-Business Synergy

Self-Reciprocity Laws    Paradoxical Rules


One Way, Many Paths

Happy vs. Unhappy People: 10 Differences

Happiness 360    Happiness Way

Happy Achiever    Buddhism on Happiness

Success Secrets

Personal Success 360

One Way, Many Paths

Wheel    5 Steps

Financial Success >> Tips

Wheel of Life

Love >> Love Is Life

Personal Development Program

Valueful Life    Balance

Your Character and Personality

Great Habits >> 6 Slides >> Make Habits Stick

Beliefs and Values

Changing Yourself


Be Different and Make a Difference

Grand Vision

Do What You Love To Do


One Way, Many Paths

Achiever: 8 Winning Habits    Achiever Mindset


Setting Goals >> Personal Goals

Taking Action    Dealing with Failure

How To Overcome Procrastination

Feedback Is Your Elevator To Success

Attitude    Self-motivation

Simplicity    80/20 Principle

Positive Thinking >> DOs and DON'Ts

Positive Affirmations for Achievement

Coaching Yourself

Be a Winner

One Way, Many Paths

10 Tips    Winners vs. Losers >> Lexicon

Never Give Up


One Way, Many Paths

Serendipity >> 10 Tips

Learning SWOT Questions

Memorizing Problems: Solved!

Decision Making

Systems Thinking

Strategic Thinking >> 7 Principles


Intuition >> Two Levels

Making Big Changes

Problem Solving

Creative Problem Solving



Lateral Thinking

Thinking Outside the Box

Effective Thinking Tests

Pearls of Wisdom and Inspiration

Your People Skills

Inhale Love

All-inclusive Love

Love To Live

Knowing Yourself and Others

Emotional Intelligence (EI)

Guard Your Happiness


How Our Mind Works

Mental Maps


Myers-Briggs Type Indicator

Building Relationships

Win-Win Mindset

Effective Communication

Connecting with People

Establishing Trust


Face-to-Face Communication


Body Language


Active Listening

Asking Effective Questions

Eye Contact

Using Feedback Constructively

Influencing People

Rapport - the Key to Influence

Persuading People

Become a Master of Persuasion


Leader 360

Leadership Attributes

Creative Leadership DOs and DON'Ts


Strategic Leadership Lessons

18 Lessons for Leaders

Principle-Centered Leadership

Situational Leadership

What Empathy Got To Do With It?


Selecting an Appropriate Style

The Ask/Tell Repertoire

GROW Model

Coaching by Questions

Observing People


Negotiation DOs and DON'Ts

Taking Different Perceptual Positions

Conflict Resolution

Ten-Step Guideline - a Yoga Approach

Solving People Problems

Cultural Intelligence (CQ)

World Cultures

Eastern vs. Western Philosophy

Managing Cross-Cultural Differences

Yin and Yang

5 Basic Elements

Integral Yoga


Your Business Skills


Innovation Is Love

10 Commandments of Innovation

Entrepreneurial Creativity

3 Bs of Strategic Creativity

Disney Creativity Strategy

Be the Best Possible

10 Golden Rules for Successful Carriers

Staying Alive


Disruptive Innopreneur

Internet Entrepreneur >> Solo Interpreneur

Vision    Success >> 21 Secrets

Cross-Functional Excellence

Business Architect

Create Synergies

Master of Business Synergies (MBS)

Synergize Diversities

Synergize Innovations

Process Thinking

Business Communication

10 Business Communication Tips



Effective Format of Presentation


Managerial Leadership

Leadership versus Management

Leadership Schools

Corporate Leader

12 Leadership Roles

Inspirational Leadership

Creative Leadership

Values-Based Leadership

Inclusive Leadership

Results-Based Leadership

Strategic Leadership

Extreme Leadership

Entrepreneurial Leadership

Transformational Leadership

Project Leadership

Power of Personal Charisma

Energizing Employees

Fast Decision Making Techniques

Developing People

People Power

Developing Entrepreneurial Staff


Attitude Motivation

Incentive Motivation

Team Building & Teamwork

Team Leader: 9 Roles

Synergistic Team

Cross-functional Teams


Business Plan

Strategic Planning



Effective Selling




20-second exercise for your computer-tired eyes



Great Achiever

8 Winning Habits

  1. Create an inspiring vision and start moving towards your dream... More

  4 WHYs of True Success


NLP Technology of Achievement

5 Rules of Self-motivation

  1. Motivation is not a product of external influence; it is a natural product of your desire to achieve something and your belief that you are capable to do it... More

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NLP Technology of Achievement

Creating Inevitable Success: 5 Steps

  1. Appreciate your goal, pay attention to how attractive that goal is, make it as compelling as possible... More

Humorous Business Plans

Financial Success

Values being created: "Money can't buy happiness; it can, however, rent it." – Unknown...

Money management skills: "Anyone who lives within their means suffers from a lack of imagination." – Oscar Wilde...

Funds required and uses: "I just need enough to tide me over until I need more." – Bill Hoest...  More

Self-Improvement - Developing Yourself: Contribution of Genetic and Environmental Factors

Love Quotes

Let this be my last word, but I trust in thy love...

– Stray Birds, Rabindranath Tagore... More

Ten3 Business e-Coach: Graphic Maps The Wheel of Life Achiever: 8 Winning Habits Relax - Have Fun! Learning Happiness 360: the Three Loves Health Building Successful Relationships Financial Success Life-Business Synergy Love To Live Vadim Kotelnikov Quotes



The Wheel of Life: Eastern vs. Western View

Humorous Business Plans

Success in Love

Brief History: "Men always want to be a woman's first love – women like to be a man's last romance." – Oscar Wilde...

Milestones completed and future plans: "Man begins by loving love and ends by loving a woman. Woman begins by loving a man and ends by loving love." – Remy De Gourmount...

Growth Strategy: "If men knew all that women think, they'd be twenty times more daring." – Alphonse Karr... More

Humorous Business Plans

Successful Marriage

Values being created: "I never knew what real happiness was until I got married and by then it was too late." – Max Kauffman...

Marriage management skills: "A good marriage would be between a blind wife and a deaf husband." – Montaigne...

Market analysis: "What the world really needs is more love and less paperwork." – Pearl Bailey... More

 25 Humorous Rules for Women

  • If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that.

  • We are not mind readers and we never will be. Our lack of mind-reading ability is not proof of how little we care about you... More

12 Effective Leadership Roles

  1. Be willing to discuss and solve problems; listen with understanding; support and help... More

Gaining Knowledge

Happiness Quotes

"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you." – Nathaniel Hawthorne... More

Yin and Yang of Happiness

Happiness 360: the Three Loves

Your People Skills 360  Download PowerPoint presentation, pdf e-book

Your Character Ethic and Personality Ethic

The elements of Personality Ethic, such as communication skills, influence strategies, and positive thinking, are essential for success, but these are secondary, not primary traits. "You can pick up quick, easy techniques that may work in short-term situations. But secondary traits alone have no permanent worth in long-term relationships. Eventually, if there isn't deep integrity and fundamental character strength, the challenges of life will cause true motives to surface and human relationships failure will replace short-term success1".

Only basic goodness gives life to techniques. To achieve great results, focus first on yourself - your deepest motives and perceptions - and then on your techniques.

There are two main paths of the Personality Ethic:

  1. Human and public relations techniques (e.g. communication skills; influence strategies)

  2. Positive Mental Attitude (PMA)

Positive Emotions are the Key to Life

Positive emotional energy is the key to health, happiness and wellbeing. The more positive you are, the better your life will be in every area... More

The Power of Passion

Successful people win because they love what they do. All of them have a very strong desire to succeed. They have passion for their field, their business.

Passion is the single fastest way to spur yourself to massive success. It is something you love. Something you're excited about. Something you get up early to work on or to stay up late... More

Unlock Your Creativity

3 Levels of Your Creativity Download PowerPoint presentation, pdf e-book

Creativity is not about inventing something totally new, it is about making new connections. You don't have to be a special kind of person to be creative – everyone can do it. It's not about who you are, it's about what you do. You just need to start looking for multiple solutions rather than settling for just one, and give yourself permission to be playful and inquisitive, flexible and versatile.

Entrepreneurial Creativity: Yin and Yang  Download PowerPoint presentation, pdf e-book

Are You an Effective Leader?

Effective leaders recognize that what they know is very little in comparison to what they still need to learn.

12 Major Causes of Failure in Leadership

Leadership Attributes

To be more proficient in pursuing and achieving objectives, you should be open to new ideas, insights, and revelations that can lead to better ways to accomplishing goals. This continuous learning process can be exercised, in particular, through engaging yourself in a constant dialogue with your peers, advisers, consultants, team members, suppliers, customers, and competitors.

The Tao of Leadership

Emotional Intelligence

"Emotional Intelligence" refers to your capacity to recognize your own feelings and those of others, for motivating yourself, and for managing emotions well in yourself and in your relationships. "It describes abilities distinct from, but complementary to, academic intelligence, the purely cognitive capabilities measured by IQ. Many people who are book smart lack emotional intelligence but lack emotional intelligence end up working for people who have lower IQs than they but who excel in emotional intelligence skills."3

Can Your Communicate Effectively?

The three aspects (KFC) of effective communication are:

  • Know what you want

  • Find out what you are getting

  • Change what you do until you get what you want... More

Managerial Communication

10 Rules of Effective Listening

By: Linda Eve Diamond

Listening broadens us, lays the groundwork for peace, elevates the quality of our relationships, and opens the way to success. If nothing else, when you listen, you'll find you are the most popular person in the room... More

Yin-Yang of Effective Listening

Do You Know How To Connect with People?

Connecting with people "is not about being phony or acting like someone you are not; it's about creating a favorable link between your internal nature with its beliefs and values, and the external world where you go to work."1 Learning to connect fast with your customers, colleagues, bosses, employees, and even total strangers by taking full advantage of your body, your mind, your voice, and above all your imagination will give you a significant competitive edge. It will help you maximize the potential in every relationship, be it personal, business-related, or social... More

5 Essential Strategies for Managing Up

There are five laws that you absolutely must follow if you have any hope of creating, maintaining, and managing any productive relationship with your boss... More


Leo Tolstoy quotes

Love is life.
All, everything that I understand,
I understand only because I love.

Leo Tolstoy

Buddha teachings

From right understanding proceeds right thought; from right thought proceeds right speech... More


Stephen Covey advice quotes

We are not human beings on a spiritual journey. We are spiritual beings on a human journey.


Socrates Teachings

I cannot teach anybody anything, I can only make them think.


Lao Tzu advice quotes teachings

When I let go of what I am,

I become what I might be.

Lao Tzu

Become less knowledgeable and more childlike. Take life as fun – because that's precisely what it is!


Confucius advice

I hear and I forget.

I see and I remember.

I do and I understand >>>


Larry Elison advice

When I do something, it is all about
self-discovery. I want to learn and discover my own limits.

Larry Elison




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  1. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Stephen R. Covey

  2. NLP - the New Technology of Achievement, Steve Andreas and Charles Faulkner

  3. Working with Emotional Intelligence, Daniel Goleman

  4. "How To Connect in Business in 90 Seconds or Less", Nicholas Boothman

  5. As a Man Thinketh, James Allen

  6. Self Improvement Tips, Self Esteem, Personal Development by Amy Twain

  7. "Motivated in Minutes," Jason Gracia

  8. Zen Proverbs, Sayings, and Quotes

  9. Confucius about Relationships

  10. The Art of Happiness, HH the 14th Dalai Lama of Tibet and Howard C. Cutle

  11. Self-Mastery: The Complete Personal Breakthrough Programme: Tools & People

Inspirational Quotes


Have a Dream!


Humorous Quotes


Knowledge and Learning


Happiness as the Purpose of Life

Socrates Teachings

I've Learned...

Top 10 Life Purposes

20 Legacy Statements

Illusion or Reality? Question Your Assumption

Creating Joy: 8-Step Emotional Transformation Recipe

Love to Live

4 Simple Ways To Relax Your Body and Mind

Kids Little Instructions on Life


Happy vs Unhappy People: 10 Differences

Happiness 360: the Three Loves

Happiness – It's All in Our Own Hands

Success Secrets

12 Pillars of Success

The Law of Belief

Combine Life Vision and Life Strategy

The Golden Hour

How To Make Better Decisions

The 4 Most Deadly Words

Act from a Sense of Urgency

3 Rules for Developing Courage

The Law of Forced Efficiency

Don't Quit


Jesus on Love

People Skills

The Tao of Communication

Confucius about Communication

Building Relationships

Effective Listening

12 Rules of Effective Listening

12 Active Listening Tips

Free Personality Tests

Lόscher Color Test

The Tibetan Personality Test